August 25, 2020

Understanding the concept of resilience may seem like a feat, especially in this part of the world where the word is often extended to mean “persistence”. Yes, the two words can be related, but they do not necessarily mean the same thing. Resilience is simply put, the ability to bounce back. When life throws you

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August 25, 2020

I love my daughter and love how far we have bonded in recent times. I have successfully been able to blur the lines between “mother” and “friend”. It has not been easy, but I’m happy to be here now, and the happier for where we are headed. It took a lot, I must confess. I

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July 31, 2020

A trophy is usually given as a reminder of a specific achievement and serves as recognition or evidence of merit. It is often displayed as a thing of pride. The problem however is that it is basically kept on a display for anyone and everyone to see. A Treasure, on the other hand, is a

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July 31, 2020

I look at my children and see how unique each of them are, their uniqueness makes them special and makes our home full of laughter. Trust me though, it wasn’t always like this way. I used to be really good at comparison in the past, every little mistake and I couldn’t help but let it

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July 31, 2020

I recall when my daughter was 6, her classmate invited some of her friends for her party but didn’t invite my daughter. My daughter cried, tried to suck up to her, and even pleaded for a slot. The girl said “no”.My dear daughter couldn’t understand why she was not invited. We all know no one

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